Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Run Extended Due to Overwhelming Popularity

That's a little theater terminology for you all. Being married to an expert in the realm of the performing arts has apparently rubbed off on yours truly. Due to an inability to figure out the wireless internet of Delnor Community Hospital, I (Dain II) will once again be filling in for Marie on the blog.

First, an update on Marie and Little D (we're giving this nickname a trial run...feedback appreciated). Mom is recovering well from the C-section. Her doctors feel everything is healing well and the staples holding everything together will be removed tomorrow (Wednesday). She's still a little sore, but is moving around well and trying to stay busy. To pass the time in the hospital, Marie has developed a routine that has been quite effective. I'll let her describe it in full detail when she gets home.

As for the bundle of joy, he couldn't be doing better. When he first was admitted to the Special Needs Nursery, the nurses explained that he would need to clear a series of hurdles before we could take him home, with an expected completion window of a week. It was interesting to learn that these hurdles were to be completed in succession, rather than concurrently...babies literally teach themselves how to do the most mundane things that most of us take for granted. First, he had to show that he could breathe on his own, which he was having trouble with when he first arrived. He was given some medicine to help lung development, and his right lung wasn't inflating properly. After a day, the lung was almost completely inflated, and by day two, x-rays showed that breathing was no longer a problem. He had been receiving oxygen to this point, but it was removed at this point. Next, he needed to be able to digest his food. Apparently babies don't require food for the first day or so, so he was able to transition directly from the learning-to-breathe stage to the digest-formula/breastmilk. He had a couple stops and starts in this area, but now he's eating like a champ, and without the benefit of what Marie referred to as the "nose hose" (feeding tube). He took to the bottle like a natural, and when he isn't eating, he's sucking on a pacifier. I'm not thrilled with this development (not a huge fan of the pacifier), but I'll cut the kid some slack since he's had a pretty tough start. Finally, D must master the fine art of maintaining body temperature without the aid of an incubator. Apparently this is the easiest step...the nurses predict he won't need artificial heating in no time. So, things are going well.

Personality-wise, it's remarkable to see him already exhibiting traits passed on from his parents (at least, we interpret what he does that way). For example, he's a stubborn little dude...to help him with his digestion initially, they put him on his stomach or side (which is OK...he's being monitored constantly). Just like his mother, if he wasn't satisfied with his positioning, he made a stink until a nurse (or he himself) got it just right. Also like Marie, he's a big believer in personal space...not a big fan of being messed with too much, and he'll let you know with a slap or a kick if you're violating his comfort zone. He seems to have inherited his father's sleeping habits; i.e., constantly and with mouth gaping wide open.

OK, updates over. Now to the good stuff. You'll notice he no longer has that nasty tape and tube on his face.

Having dinner, prepared by mom, served by pops:



A little size perspective (that's my hairy wrist and hand):



Flashing the signs of the gang he and his fellow nursery-mates have apparently formed:



If only we could all feel as peaceful and relaxed as he looks (and I'm insisting he looks like his Great-Grandpa Kohl here...Steph, back me up on this):



So, that's tonight's update. The ETA for his home opener is still Saturday or Sunday, but of course we're holding out hope it will be sooner. Coming tomorrow: A Motion Picture Debut (if I can figure out the camera).

5 comments:

Stephanie Wells said...

Fine-ly! Um, I've been thinking he kind of looks like Kohl when Kohl was born (Indian baby), but I'm not sure I see great-grandpa Kohl. Dan sees DJ in him.

On Little D-- we just call him Baby Dain. I keep thinking of "D" in that annoying voice JD Clark had. It's not bad, not our favorite. Dan votes for Dizzy Dain (as in Dizzy Dean the Cards' pitcher).

Brianne said...

He looks awesome! I'm glad everything is progressing well. I know you guys must be so anxious to get him home. Little D is a good one. It was actually my sister, Devon's nickname when she was a kid. Only advice, when they get to be a certain age, they can't stand the title "little" anymore and will demand something new :) But you have plenty of time before that rolls around.

Anonymous said...

OMG HE IS GORGEOUS! Sue and I think he looks a lot like Joey when he was born. He is absolutely beautiful, perfect, wonderful, marvelous....(did I mention perfect??) I am so happy that everyone is doing well and recovering nicely. Marie - don't worry about the staples. I don't care what anyone says, it doesn't hurt when they come out. I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH AND CANNOT WAIT TO SEE LITTLE D! (love the nickname. adorable).

marcy said...

i am just in love! he is a tiny! like your thumb nail is as big as his ear BAIN! haha he's too cute to handle. give maureen my love!

ahota88 said...

I vote for D3, as it kind of reminds me of the 3D, the greatest tag-team finishing move of all time. Also, his hands look huge...you know what that means...